I'll be Better In Time

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I'm hooked on classics!

My mom told me that she loves listening to Mozart and Beethoven when I was still inside her womb. Then in kinder, my dad used to read me some classical bedtime stories before i sleep. Grade school when he started sharing some classical novels. No wonder, why my dad's the best. He made sure he reads one book to me before we sleep even if he's tired and busy. awww... Love yah dad! Grade one when i started singing disney classics. High school when i started learning classic jazz. I also love watching classical concerts. In fact, I ushered Mr.Sal Malaki's Concert in Meralco theatre, i went upstage and gave him a bouquet. Damn he has a great voice! I was also there when Andrea Bocelli had his first concert here in manila. You see? I grew up in a classic way. lol! I love classics, they're timeless and truly a work of art.

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LOVE STORY: A CLASSIC REMEMBERED

Summer 2008 when Astrovision made a big sale on vcds and dvds, that's when I started collecting classic films. Take note, i mean "film", not movie. There's a big difference between the two. Moving on, I've bought ten vcds on my first batch of collection namely: Sound of Music, The Nun, Cleopatra, Gone with the Wind, The Godfather, Victor/Victoria, Chiti Bang Bang, Streetcar named Desire, Breakfast at Tiffany's and Fiddler on the Roof. I've watched most of them already but bought it still for the sake of collecting original classic films. Last Sunday, I went to Metrowalk for a gig. During breaktime, i went up to the mall to buy a few dvd series. Then guess what i've found?! LOVE STORY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh my, I grabbed it and hold it tight, like no one else has to buy it. I found a rare, hard to find classic which I've been looking since last last year. Hmmm, as the saying goes, surprises come up when you least expect them. After my gig, I hurried home to watch it. At the middle of the story,not reaching the climax yet, my tears began to fall. You won't believe, my tears fell continuosly till the end. I never cried so much like this to a film. I mean, I cried in I am Sam, The Notebook, If Only and 50 1st dates but never cried so much like this.

Love Story is a tearjerker love story between a Harvard pre-law hockey player Oliver Barrett IV (Ryan O'Neal) and Radcliffe music student Jenny Cavilleri (Ali MacGraw). These two have different economic backgrounds. Oliver's a preppy millionaire and Jenny's a simple smart musician. The couple was so happy together and decided to get married. The obstacle comes in when Oliver introduced Jenny to his family. His rich, powerful and snobbish father objects (marriage) and threatens to cut off funding. The two young lovers marry and started a new and simple life. They first moved into a small apartment in Cambridge before Oliver was hired by a New York law firm and they moved to the city.

The film has so many touching and remembered scenes. After meeting many obstacles and making sacrifices, Jenny is diagnosed as terminally ill when she is tested for pregnancy. Jenny dies in Oliver's arms at the hospital in a tear-inducing closing. She makes a last request of him: "You, after all - you're going to be a merry widower." "I won't be merry," he responds. She replies: "Yes, you will be. I want you to be merry. You'll be merry, okay?"

In the final scene, Oliver quotes his late wife, when speaking to his father about their past misunderstandings. After his father tells him he's sorry that she has died, Oliver responds, "Love means never having to say you're sorry." Awww.. that is my most favorite line on the film. The film ended with an award winning musical score...

Where do i begin
To tell the story
Of how greatful love can be
The sweet love story
That is older than the sea
That sings the truth about the love she brings to me
Where do i start

With the first hello
She gave the meaning
To this empty world of mine
That never did
Another love another time
She came into my life
And made a living fine
She fills my heart

She fills my heart
With very special things
With angel songs
With wild imaginings
She fills my soul
With soo much love
That anywhere i go
Im never lonely
With her along who could b lonely
I reach for her hand
Its always there

How long does it last
Can love be measured by the hours in a day
I have no answers no
But this much i can say
I know ill need her till this love song burn away
And she;ll b there...
How long does it last
Can love b measured by the hours in a day
I have no answers no
But this much i can say
I know ill need her till this love song burn away
And she'll be there...

I was carried away, I felt the love, the pain,and the sacrifices in the story. I highly recommend it to the young generations today. I swear, This is the greatest love story ever made!!! Two thumbs up, standing ovation and high five for this film. Love it!

Harry & Paul: Racist TV remark to a Filipina

tsk! tsk!

What's in my purse?

A. COSMETICS

1. Paul & Joe Cream Fonda
2. Paul & Joe Dual Compact Fonda
3. Paul & Joe Concealer
4. Paul & Joe Sunblock Moisturizer
5. MAC Blacktrack Eyeliner
6. MAC Studio Fix Liquid Foundation NC20
7. MAC Mineralized Powder
8. MAC Concealer NC25
9. MAC Lightsweep Shader - for sculpting and shaping
10. MAC Lipstick in Russian Red
11. MAC Lipglass (my fave lip makeup)
    
12. MAC Powder Brush and Shadow Brush
13. In2it brow pencil
    
14. Kabuki Brush (not in the pic)
15. Tweezers
    

B. Kenneth Cole Wallet
C. Two Old fashioned Cellphones (i am not familiar with the models)
D. Rosary
E. Lighter

8 easy, instant mood boosters

by Jessica Ashley, Shine staff, on Tue Sep 30, 2008 2:40pm PDT

On any given day, any one of us can open our calendar, flip on our Blackberry or scan through our email in-box and find enough to zap away a bright and shiny attitude. And if the spreadsheets and spam don't do it, the economy certainly might. Hey, I've had plenty of optimistic mornings this month that were obliterated in one glance at a story about the election.

Of course, we've all been through a trauma or challenge that needs to be processed and healed over time. But do you notice that most of the things that are irritating, depressing or crazy-making are comparatively small or completely out of our control (cue my grandmother's review of those books about not sweating the small stuff)?

Instead of focusing on the negative, what if we chose instead to give our time, energy and concentration to feeling good again? What if we (gasp) took a five-minute time out to get positive? Surprisingly, it's not as difficult or time-consuming to get to that happy place as you might think.

Whether you're mad about gas prices or mumbling about the boss, you can boost your mood quickly and easily with these 8 tips:

1. Clear your space, clear your mind. It's amazing how a few piles of paperwork and a line of empty Starbucks cups can make a busy day feel even more frantic. Set a cell phone alarm or timer for five minutes and use that time to de-clutter a manageable space around you. Focus your efforts on your desk or kitchen counter rather than a whole room or cubicle. Stash everything that needs your attention today into a file folder and find a home for everything else in drawers, baskets or the trash. Write down any thoughts or tasks that are causing you anxiety or have upcoming deadlines so you are left with reminders rather than worries.

If you need to take three breaks a day to clean-sweep your space, so be it. As long as it helps you stay calm and feel organized and in control, it is worth the time. If you make a habit of taking one of these breaks before you leave the office or turn in for the night, think how much better your mood will be when you return in the morning.

2. Put on a little mood-lifting music. Whether pop music, nature sounds or jazz makes you smile or sing or dance in your chair, even a song or two will help you escape the blues. Stash a CD in your car, bag or desk to pop in or upload a special playlist full of songs that always make you feel better. If you don't have an MP3 player or disc at your fingertips, simply go to YouTube and search for videos tagged "peaceful" or "happy." You may end up with a crazy karaoke lady performance or a kitty cat rolling around to hip-hop, but the chances are good your mood will be boosted by that nuttiness, too.

3. Make yourself laugh (or at least grin). Studies show that laughter not only has a powerful impact on your mood, it sends your body into an instant state of relaxation. In fact, the anticipation of laughter (as we wait for a punchline, for example) sends a wave of electricity over our cerebral cortex, causing a physiological and psychological connection to even the worst jokes.

There's no need to force yourself to smile or do any of that weird belly-laugh yoga to get the good effects of humor. Make it easy on yourself by keeping an email file or manila folder full of the cards, messages and cartoons you get that really do make you LOL. A birthday card from your best friend or a sticky note of congratulations on a successful project are also nice reminders that people love and support you and are guaranteed to warm up your attitude. (Do be sure to toss items from this folder once in a while so your happy file doesn't cause unhappiness-inducing clutter.)

4. Focus on your favorite color. There's plenty of research that says painting your walls certain colors will help make you feel more serene or productive or sexy in that room. I love that strategy when I move into a new place or redecorate, but that investment's not always plausible and it's certainly not quick or easy. Thank goodness it's possible to get a quick fix with just a bit of those mood-lifting colors.

I personally know how well this trick can work. I loved the deep aubergine ribbon I used for my wedding bouquet so much that I ordered an extra roll of it just to lift my spirits long after the big day passed. I tied it around planters that sit on my desk, put a small swatch in my jewelry box and even tied it into a bow on my key ring. The color evoked such a sense of joy and serenity to me that I felt those emotions wash over me each time I saw the ribbon tucked into everyday spaces. If hot pink makes you feel happy or turquoise reminds you of the most amazing, relaxing vacation of your life, get a coffee mug or flowers or nail polish in that color as a focal point when you need a boost.

5. Mix up something good to eat or drink. Being hungry or hydrated can impact your concentration, energy level and ability to cope with stressers. No, that doesn't mean a martini and Xanax smoothie or bag full of candy bars will make you feel better. While alcohol or sugar may give you temporary comfort, you will probably feel worse once that wears off. Instead, choose a healthier snack or small meal that combines protein and carbohydrates. Toast with almond butter and honey, trail mix with nuts and dried fruit, oatmeal with cranberries and skim milk are all tasty and will fuel your body longer than a treat. Drinking a big glass of water (rather than coffee...sigh) will also help perk you up.

6. Stretch yourself. Get up from behind the monitor or television or steering wheel. Go for a ten-minute walk or just do three or four stretches. There's no need to do a full workout but do focus in on which muscles feel tight and gently stretch and massage those areas to increase circulation. Rubbing your hands, feet, neck and temples with a lightly-scented lotion or oil does wonders if you have to remain seated. I keep a small bottle of lavender lotion in my car and next to my laptop for quick, rejuvenating hand massages while I sit at stop lights and listen in on conference calls. It's amazing how diverting my attention just slightly from traffic and work talk eases my stress (not while driving, of course).

If depression is an issue for you, regular exercise may be a way to help elevate your mood. For all of us, it's no shock that pounding out stress on a treadmill or releasing everyday anxiety on the yoga mat does wonders for how good we feel physically and emotionally over time.

7. Exhale the tension, then inhale something that smells sweet. Combine the one-two of breathing deeply as an exercise or in meditation or prayer with aromatherapy for a quick mood change. Set the stage for a few peaceful moments by spritzing a room spray or lighting a candle in a calming scent. If there is a tea or flower that evokes a sense of calm to you, keep some on hand for these occasions. Once that scent has circulated a bit, take a breathing break. Close your eyes or turn away from whatever it is that has brought your mood down and center on taking full breaths in and out. Add a mantra or prayer, or if you need guidance, listen to a meditation podcast.

8. Start over. If nothing else helps and it looks like your day is a complete wash, why not call a do-over? If you can make the time, give yourself a half-hour (or more) to linger a little longer than usual in a warm shower. Not only will the change in your routine shake off some of the stress, studies show that heating up your core temperature can also warm up your mood. Then do some simple self-care rituals like applying your favorite moisturizer and putting on comfortable clothes you feel good wearing. Even if you have to return to work or your to-do list, at least you know you can hit the re-set button on your attitude first.


[photo credit: Getty Images]

Naughty Girl: The Hottie and The Nottie

just wanna play with my manga,lol! :p

Something to think about... (from chubby cheesecake)

1. Take a 10-30 minute walk everyday, and while you walk, smile.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes a day.
3. When you wake up in the morning, complete this statement: “My purpose is to _______ today.”
4. Live with the 3 E’s: Energy, Enthusiasm, Empathy; and the 3 F’s: Faith, Family, Friends.
5. Dream more while you are awake.
6. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
7. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn, pass all your tests.
8. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
9. Smile and laugh more. It will keep the energy vampires away.
10. Life isn’t fair, but it is still good.
11. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. (ITS WORTH IT!)
12. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
13. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagreements.
14. Make peace with your past, so it won’t mess up the present. (DAMAGE HAS BEEN DONE)
15. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
16. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets. Don’t save it for special occasion. Today is special.
17. No one is in-charge of your happiness except you.
18. Forgive everyone for everything. (YEA, EXCEPT HER!)
19. What other people think of you is none of your business.
20. Time (PLUS APOLOGY) heals almost everything. Give time, time.
21. However good or bad the situation is, it will change.
22. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
23. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
24. The best is yet to come.
25. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. (TELL THIS TO HER,LOL)
26. Do the right thing.
27. Call your family often.
28. Each night before you go to bed, complete the following statements: “I am thankful for….” “Today I accomplished…”
29. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.
30. Enjoy the ride. Remember that this is not Disney World and you certainly don’t want a fast pass. Make the most of it and enjoy the ride.

Graphology: My Handwriting Analysis

Graphology: is the study and analysis of handwriting especially in relation to human psychology. In the medical field, it can be used to refer to the study of handwriting as an aid in diagnosis and tracking of diseases of the brain and nervous system. The term is sometimes incorrectly used to refer to forensic document examination.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Graphology

Graphology according to wiki is the study of handwriting. It came from a Greek word "graphos" which means "writing". But why is it kinda new to most of us? If I'm not mistaken, handwriting were invented during stone age, remember the logos that are engraved in caves, mountains, and pyramids? I read that the research started in 1575. But I actually just heard it last year from my psychologist. hehe!

Just this year, i saw a booth in Megatrade that conducts graphoanalysis. My psychologist said there's still a big debate if people would consider it a science, coz most of its empirical studies fail to show the validity claimed by its supporters. And so, my curiosity popped out. I went to Megatrade for that Expo that conducts free graphoanalysis. They asked me to write my name and the words "i love you" in a piece of paper. And then they started reading my handwriting. First thing the pop from his (grapho analyst) mouth---"It will only look that you have a strong personality (yea, right)... but in fact you are a very shy person (whaaaaat?????!!!!). You're having a hard time to approach or talk to a certain person. (huh???)". That doesnt sound convincing to me. Shyness in the first place is not included in my dictionary. I think this man was just trying to manipulate me, he wants me to think about what he has said and relate it to myself. I also thought that he's just too lazy that day as I am (i think) his 1,111th client. hehe! And so, i cracked a clever question in front of more or less 50 people in his booth---"Doctor, are this for real?, coz i have a lot of different handwriting forms depends on the pen that i am using. Does this mean that i have MPS (multiple personality syndrome)?" Then, he answered, "We are not allowed to answer your question." Wdf?!

That boggled me until i was able to see my psychologist. My life coach then told me that they will not really tell you how'd they come up with their results. Coz its really a top secret. hmm. My psychologist need not explain further, as i reacted as if i got her point. lol! I actually understand why they couldnt spill the beans, they've spent big bucks for the course. hehe!

My life coach said that their readings are based on my mood that day and not because of the pen that I was using. Which is now I've connected the dots. That day, when the grapho analyst said that im shy, i am not actually really shy, but scared (ok, a little shy) to approach him as he might gonna tell something about me that is negative and people will surely hear it. And that's quite embarrasing right?! Now, its clear to me. My mood that day is shy because I'm scared. Ok. hmmm...

My keen sense of curiosity doesn't stop there. Im more curious to use graphology for an elaborated personality evaluation. And so i made a research and found this site http://handwritingwizard.com. Below are the results, the one i typed in bold letters are exactly true with regard to my mood today and my personality as well. Let me know what you think.

Roqzanne is very outgoing. Her emotions are stirred by sympathy and heart rendering stories. In fact, she can be kind, friendly, affectionate and considerate of others. She has the ability to put herself into the other person's shoes.

Roqzanne will be somewhat moody, with highs and lows. Sometimes she will be happy, the next day she might be sad. She has the unique ability to get along equally well with what psychology calls introverts and extroverts. This is because she is in between. Psychology calls Roqzanne an ambivert. She understands the needs of both types. Although they get along, she will not tolerate anyone that is too "far out." She doesn't sway too far one way or the other.

When convincing her to buy a product or an idea, a heart rendering story could mean a great deal to her. She puts herself in the same situation as the person in the story, yet she will not buy anything that seems overly impractical or illogical. Roqzanne is an expressive person. She outwardly shows her emotions. She may even show traces of tears when hearing a sad story.

Roqzanne is a "middle-of-the-roader," politically as well as logically. She weighs both sides of an issue, sits on the fence, and then will decide when she finally has to. She basically doesn't relate to any far out ideas and usually won't go to the extreme on any issue.

People that write their letters in an average height and average size are moderate in their ability to interact socially. According to the data input, Roqzanne doesn't write too large or too small, indicating a balanced ability to be social and interact with others.

Roqzanne is sensitive to criticism about her ideas and philosophies. She will sometimes worry what people will think if she tells them what she believes in. This doesn't mean she won't talk, or that she feels ashamed. It merely means she is sensitive to what others think, regarding her beliefs.

Roqzanne is talkative. She enjoys talking and socializing. She may talk when there is absolutely nothing important to say. She enjoys speaking.

In reference to Roqzanne's mental abilities, she has a very investigating and creating mind. She investigates projects rapidly because she is curious about many things. She gets involved in many projects that seem good at the beginning, but she soon must slow down and look at all the angles. She probably gets too many things going at once. When Roqzanne slows down, then she becomes more creative than before. Since it takes time to be creative, she must slow down to do it. She then decides what projects she has time to finish. Thus she finishes at a slower pace than when she started the project.

She has the best of two kinds of minds. One is the quick investigating mind. The other is the creative mind. Her mind thinks quick and rapidly in the investigative mode. She can learn quicker, investigate more, and think faster. Roqzanne can then switch into her low gear. When she is in the slower mode, she can be creative, remember longer and stack facts in a logical manner. She is more logical this way and can climb mental mountains with a much better grip.

Roqzanne is a practical person whose goals are planned, practical, and down to earth. This is typical of people with normal healthy self-esteem. She needs to visualize the end of a project before she starts. she finds joy in anticipation and planning. Notice that I said she plans everything she is going to do, that doesn't necessarily mean things go as planned. Roqzanne basically feels good about herself. She has a positive self-esteem which contributes to her success. She feels she has the ability to achieve anything she sets her mind to. However, she sets her goals using practicality-- not too "out of reach". She has enough self-confidence to leave a bad situation, yet, she will not take great risks, as they relate to her goals. A good esteem is one key to a happy life. Although there is room for improvement in the confidence category, her self-perception is better than average.

Roqzanne is sarcastic. This is a defense mechanism designed to protect her ego when she feels hurt. She pokes people harder than she gets poked. These sarcastic remarks can be very funny. They can also be harsh, bitter, and caustic at the same time.

Roqzanne has a healthy imagination and displays a fair amount of trust. She lets new people into her circle of friends. She uses her imagination to understand new ideas, things, and people.

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